Anxiety, Mood, and Work Stress
When your mind will not rest, everything feels harder
Anxiety, irritability, or constant pressure to perform can make it difficult to think clearly, stay present, or enjoy life.
You may be successful at work but feel like you are barely holding things together. Or you may find yourself avoiding things you once enjoyed, feeling drained, distracted, or disconnected.
Therapy can help you understand what is fueling these feelings and teach you how to regulate them with practical, research-backed tools.
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Common issues I help with
Persistent anxiety or worry
Restlessness, racing thoughts, or sleep problems
Burnout, exhaustion, or emotional numbness
Irritability or anger that affects relationships
Difficulty focusing or following through
Feeling “on edge” or unable to relax
Physical tension, headaches, or fatigue
Loss of motivation or enjoyment
Sometimes anxiety shows up as overcontrol: working harder, staying busier, or chasing perfection, to avoid feeling out of control.
Other times it looks like withdrawal, procrastination, or emotional distance. Both are signs that your body and mind are overloaded.
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Work-related stress
Many of my clients come in feeling worn down by expectations they never agreed to. They are managing teams, partners, families, and internal pressure to keep succeeding.
Even high achievers can reach a point where constant effort stops working and anxiety becomes the default setting.
Therapy provides space to step back, reassess priorities, and reconnect with what matters most.
We focus on skills that help you stay productive without sacrificing health or relationships.
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How therapy helps
Our work focuses on three main areas:
Awareness and regulation
Learn how to identify early signs of stress and use practical strategies to reset before it builds.Cognitive and behavioral flexibility
Practice new ways of responding to anxious thoughts and external demands so you can stay balanced instead of reactive.Values-based living
Clarify what actually matters to you, then align daily choices with those values instead of external expectations.
This process does not remove stress entirely, but it gives you control over how you respond to it.
You will learn tools that last well beyond therapy.
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What progress looks like
Feeling calm and present, even when things are uncertain
Improved focus and productivity without burnout
Stronger boundaries between work and personal life
Greater patience and empathy in relationships
Fewer physical symptoms of stress
A clearer sense of what is meaningful and sustainable
If you are already in therapy or on medication
I often collaborate with other clinicians and physicians to ensure your care is coordinated and effective.
If you are already taking medication for anxiety or depression, therapy can complement and strengthen those effects by addressing the behavioral and emotional patterns that medication alone cannot reach.
My Approach
I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and integrate elements of mindfulness, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and self-compassion training.
We move from understanding to action.
You will leave each session with clear, realistic steps to practice between appointments.
You do not have to do this alone
Anxiety thrives in silence and isolation.
Starting therapy is a way to take back agency and stop letting stress make the decisions for you.
Let’s talk about what has been happening and how we can create more balance and stability in your life.
WORK STRESS
Work-related stress is an inevitable aspect of professional life, often triggered by immediate pressures such as tight deadlines or important presentations. While short-term stress can enhance focus and boost performance, it becomes problematic when it transforms into a persistent source of anxiety that affects your emotional and physical health, as well as the well-being of those around you. Recognizing the signs of chronic stress is crucial; when it starts to overshadow your daily activities and interactions, it is essential to take proactive steps to address it and seek support.
In today’s fast-paced work environment, many individuals grapple with the balance between passion and obligation. The pressure to excel can often overshadow the joy of pursuing one’s interests, leading to a sense of disillusionment. For some, the overwhelming workload becomes a significant source of stress, compounded by unclear expectations from both themselves and their employers. This disconnect can foster feelings of inadequacy and fatigue, but acknowledging these challenges is the first step toward fostering a healthier work-life balance and reigniting the passion for one’s craft.
Participating in meaningful and transparent discussions can assist you in clarifying your priorities regarding work-life balance and establishing healthy boundaries in the workplace, thereby ensuring that your professional responsibilities do not intrude on your personal life.
HOW CAN I HELP?
Through personalized, one-on-one therapy, I can assist you in identifying the specific work conditions that frequently contribute to your stress and examining your typical emotional and physical reactions to these situations. This process may reveal negative, automatic thought patterns that, once illuminated, can be challenged and redefined. Chronic work-related stress is prevalent in our society, but you do not have to face it alone or indefinitely. I am here to help you understand your work experiences—both past and present—and to explore how you can find profound and enduring meaning, fulfillment, and purpose in your chosen career. Common stressors include:
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A pervasive sense of powerlessness significantly contributes to job-related stress across various professions. This feeling often leads to a cycle of depression, accompanied by helplessness and hopelessness, as individuals perceive their circumstances as unchangeable. Occupations such as secretaries, waitresses, middle managers, police officers, editors, and medical interns frequently experience high levels of stress due to the constant demands placed upon them, coupled with a lack of control over their work environment. Common grievances include an overwhelming sense of responsibility without corresponding authority, unfair labor practices, and vague job descriptions. To mitigate these stressors, employees can seek support through labor unions, grievance offices, or engage in direct discussions with their supervisors to advocate for their needs and rights in the workplace.
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Every employee should have a specific, written job description. Negotiating one can significantly alleviate feelings of powerlessness. It becomes a contract that you contribute to, allowing you to express objections and assert your preferences. If a compromise is reached, it reflects your agreement. A clear job description outlines both your expectations and those of your boss.
A good job description should also be time-limited. Setting a specific date for review and revision based on your mutual experiences with the initial job description is beneficial. If you and your boss cannot agree on the job description, it may be worthwhile to explore other opportunities, whether within the same company or externally. Even in challenging economic times, it is essential for your job to be a source of satisfaction and respect.
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It's often said, “Find a job you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life.” Considering that most people spend about 25% of their adult lives working, those who enjoy their jobs are indeed fortunate. However, for those who feel like a square peg in a round hole, job stress can negatively impact productivity and take a toll on both mental and physical health.
There are various reasons why individuals remain in jobs that don’t suit them or that they don’t particularly enjoy. One common reason is the “golden handcuff”—the combination of salary, pension, benefits, and perks that can keep someone tied to a job despite the stress it may cause.
Many people find themselves in positions they dislike or aren’t suited for. The straightforward solution would be to seek a job they enjoy or one that aligns better with their skills, abilities, and interests—though this is often easier said than done. Some individuals may not even know what type of job they would prefer or what might be a better fit. Additionally, they may feel uncertain about how to begin exploring these options.
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Some jobs are inherently dangerous, while others can unexpectedly become so. Criminal justice personnel, firefighters, ambulance drivers, military personnel, and disaster teams often witness challenging situations and face personal danger regularly. They typically manage these incidents effectively.
However, there are times when a particularly distressing event lingers in their minds, manifesting as flashbacks and nightmares. This can lead to sleep disturbances, feelings of guilt, anxiety, and physical complaints.
Even seemingly ordinary jobs can turn traumatic: a coworker, boss, or client may threaten an employee; a bus may crash during a field trip; an employee might be robbed or taken hostage; or a shooting could occur. Such incidents can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder.
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It is acknowledged that sometimes your work setting can create physical stress due to factors such as noise, lack of privacy, poor lighting, inadequate ventilation, temperature control issues, or insufficient sanitary facilities. Additionally, environments characterized by organizational confusion or overly authoritarian, laissez-faire, or crisis-centered management styles can contribute to psychological stress.
Engaging with labor or employee organizations can be a positive step toward improving stressful working conditions. If that approach does not yield results, exploring legal avenues may be beneficial, as courts are increasingly open to addressing complaints regarding stressful work environments. Recent rulings have encouraged employers to create workspaces that prioritize stress reduction.
The Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) is the federal agency responsible for overseeing workplace safety and health. If you believe your work environment poses a physical risk to your health and safety, reaching out to them could be a wise decision.
If all else fails and the work environment continues to be stressful, considering a job change may be a viable option. While job hunting can be challenging, especially during periods of high unemployment, it is often preferable to enduring daily stress at work.