WELCOME TO MY PRACTICE
Most of my clients know me simply as Dr. Z. I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist with more than fifteen years of experience helping individuals navigate the complex intersections of eating disorders, sexuality, and intimacy.
My practice welcomes people of all gender expressions, sexual orientations, body abilities, and relationship styles—including those within kink, BDSM, and polyamorous communities. I believe in creating a space where authenticity is celebrated and curiosity is met with compassion.
My therapeutic approach is highly personalized, blending innovative and evidence-based modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Radically Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Internal Family Systems.
Engaging in open and safe dialogue with a caring, neutral psychologist offers the opportunity to uncover obstacles and cultivate deeper self-awareness, more fulfilling relationships, and richer life experiences. I see therapy as a collaborative journey—a process of healing and transformation inspired by the innate human drive to grow and connect.
Dr. Zoltan Nabilek (Ze/Hir)
MY MISSION
I am committed to creating an inclusive, affirming, and compassionate space where every person feels seen and valued. I welcome individuals of all sexual orientations, gender identities, relationship structures, and lifestyles. My mission is to offer deeply attuned, evidence-based, and validating care — meeting you exactly where you are, with respect for your unique story and goals.
Whether we are exploring identity, intimacy, desire, or emotional wellbeing, my purpose is to help you reconnect with authenticity, self-trust, and the freedom to live as your whole self.
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WHAT BROUGHT ME HERE
From a young age, I have been deeply sensitive and attuned to others. Having spent half of my life in a former communist country, I grew up under the influence of propaganda that shaped a distorted view of the world. Through those experiences, I came to understand both the weight of despair and the transformative power of compassion for all living beings.
These early influences made me highly aware of how culture shapes — and often constrains — an individual’s freedom, happiness, and sense of self. This awareness fuels my passion to help people rediscover and expand joy in their lives.
My work aims to illuminate the profound effects of the culture surrounding us. I often liken it to revealing to the fish the nature of the water in their bowl — helping individuals recognize and free themselves from the invisible constraints of mainstream ideals around bodies, eating, and sexuality. Through this awareness, we can embark on a journey toward self-liberation and authenticity, embracing who we truly are beyond society’s expectations.
My goal is to help people feel confident, connected, and fully alive in their bodies — to cultivate a relationship with health and pleasure that is rooted in acceptance rather than judgment. It is an honor to be invited into the intimate world of my clients’ lives. The courage it takes to look deeply within is something to be celebrated. I do my best to nurture and expand each person’s capacity for genuine emotional and sexual connection — the essence of living as a whole, integrated human being..
MY TRAINING
I’m a licensed psychologist, AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Eating Disorder Specialist. I work with individuals and couples to explore sexuality, intimacy, body image, and emotional wellbeing in a safe, nonjudgmental space. Curious about the human experience and deeply committed to ongoing learning, I combine evidence-based practices with compassion to help clients reconnect with themselves and live more authentically.
