Whether you are single or in a relationship, there is a lot to learn about your sexuality.

Sexuality is central part of our identity and a crucial element of our intimate relationships. Together, through meaningful dialogue, we will explore the factors that contribute to the lack of pleasure, desire, and joy in your sexual encounters.

Common sexual issues:

Performance Anxiety

Erectile Dysfunction

Painful Sex

Low Desire

When it comes to relationship styles, there are many different choices available. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a set of values that couples can choose to have in their partnerships that involve being partnered and committed to one another, but without being monogamous.
In ethical or consensual non-monogamy so you and your partner have the agreements, trust, conflict resolution skills needed to navigate this lifestyle inside of your committed relationship.

Technically, an open relationship is a type of an ethical non-monogamous relationship. The base value for all ENM relationships is that there is a set of agreements that allow each person in the couple to openly engage in sexual activity with people other than their primary partner, but based on different agreements. It’s helpful to explore them all so you have a
sense of what kind of ENM you’re interested in exploring.

One of the most important components of therapy is feeling safe to share without judgment. Working with a sex positive therapist is key, when
diving into topics related to human sexuality. The term sex positive
describes a person who creates space for inclusivity, and recognizes the diversity of fantasies, sexual expression and sexual behaviors that exist.

Someone with sex negative beliefs, may hold more rigid ideas about what
constitutes healthy sex and sexual activity.

Sex can be challenging enough to discuss. A sex positive therapisthelps to make it that much easier. Their goal is to understand, not
pathologize, and to provide non-shaming safe sex education for a person or
couple who lives an alternative lifestyle.

Therapy should be a place people can go to feel affirmed andwhole, just as they are. With a sex positive therapist, you can focus on
discussing your sexual health, sexual identity, sexual desires or sex acts free
from judgment or shame. No matter what your preferences are, you deserve
therapy that is safe, informed, and validating.

Modern Intimacy is affirming for all kinds of sexual lifestyles,including kink and BDSM. Whether you are just beginning to explore, looking to
expand, or learning to accept your preferences, it’s often important to work
with a Certified Sex Therapist who is sex positive and nonjudgmental.

Introducing kink into the bedroom and relationship(s) can feelawkward at first. A sex positive therapist can help curate conversation with
partner(s), provide appropriate education, and help you design a safety and boundary
plan. Our work promotes autonomy, sexual exploration, and consent. For those
who are experienced with kink, we can help help you take your play to deeper
levels, and iron out any bumps along the way.